Should We Cross The Line With A 69?

The other day I went to my musician’s hall of residence. We had been fighting a bit the day before, and the atmosphere between us was a bit tense. We were both drunk and it was five in the morning. Pretty soon we were both naked and the foreplay was going well. Suddenly he pulls me up upon him, and before I knew where I was, we were doing a 69. Yeah, you heard it.

I believe most of the girls have tried it. Well, at least I have tried it once before (even though I couldn’t carry through it of just laughter… I mean, it was like I was lying the wrong way!). I don’t hate this sex position – I just don’t know how to enjoy it right! In my opinion it is actually a very difficult position. The idea of both to give and enjoy at the same time can be a tough wall to break. It is rare these days that I pass by a 69 but nevertheless I believe that the 69 is only enjoyed by the males. It is difficult to do a well blowjob, when you’re using all your energy on trying to pant, groan, enjoy it, stay up and do a nice job when you have a penis in your mouth at the same time. Jesus!! On the other hand I think it is a pretty easy job for the guys: they only have to lie down and move their tongue.

This must be the boys’ idea of how it feels to be a girl, for just some minutes. However, for us girls it is actually just something to get over with. It is really a question of you having the time for a 69, or should you just need to go straight to the (actual) fun part? Boys probably see the 69 as a very overrated position. For some time ago it was very crazy thing to do the 69. Something they could boast about to their friends. And now? Apparently something they still like to do. But to be truly honest – it’s not my thing. At. All. And I wonder how many girls who actually like it? I would personally at anytime prefer to give a blowjob or to be going down on. Call me traditional, but I like it to do it the right way. And turning your face the wrong way in relation to each other in a bed just appears very awkward! Or maybe it’s just across my border (I would never imagine I should say that word about any sex position! But then again... It is a 69!).

Alma, Carla, Francisca (another girl from my class) and I talked about the 69 and played with the rhymes that go to 69. The best example came from Alma. Maybe that is the way to suggest your boy/girlfriend a 69 (though it will be very understandable if they turn you down!). It goes like this:

“You show me yours, I’ll show you mine, together we’ll make a 69!” – good, isn’t it?

Anyway, this wasn’t meant to be a rhyme; I just want to complain about 69!

xoxo Lucy.