Turn Up The Noise, Boys!

Whenever we are having (voluntary) sex, we try to make our partners as comfortable as possible. Since the fewest of us have any idea what our partner likes in the very moment and what she or he will prefer to have us doing to be able to come (unless you’re homosexual... I suppose that makes a lot of things easier in sexual situations?), we are using all of our senses to read our partner. Does it look like she/he likes it? Is she/he moving their body as if they enjoy it? And last but not least can we hear they’re enjoying it?

As you probably already have guessed – this is a speech or a request one may say, to all the dearest boys in the world to get just a bit louder! Now, I know the previous post kind of said how ashamed I get of getting caught in having sex; because of one being too loud. I still believe it is a very terrifying thought, but that doesn’t mean, that I want you boys to shut up! On the contrary! One of the absolute best things during sex is to hear if you enjoy it. I don’t know why so many of you guys don’t want to say even the smallest groan when you’re sleeping with a girl, but you have to know that just as well as you would hate if we girls didn’t say anything while making love, we hate it as well when you are as quiet as a dead, drunken body.
I talked to Alma about what she thinks about guys being all quiet in bed. She (as myself) loves when the guys says something in bed, not that it has to be like an opera or a heavy metal song, but just a groan once in a while would be nice. She told me about her ex-boyfriend Neil. Neil’s previous girlfriend’s bedroom didn’t have a door – only a curtain. Therefore Neil had learned to be absolutely quiet during sex. So at the end he found it very odd to be saying anything in bed. Alma found his quietness as a big turn off, and she hated the sex positions, where she couldn’t hear him breathe. The funny part in this story is that if she didn’t say a thing during sex, Neil got totally freaked out. So how do you think us girls feel about you being all quiet?

I think that most girls kind of say a little in bed, if nothing else to communicate with their partners (of course this is also more necessary for girls, given that boys usually have easier reaching climax). I can’t stop but wonder why girls are much more likely to pant and groan in bed than boys? I can only think of three reasons, why they don’t do it:

1.  They don’t want to drown out the sounds of the girls (which I seriously doubt!)
2.  They are raised with the idea (from among other things porn) that it is a female thing to groan, and that it should only be a noise the girls make, whenever the man is doing his job right.
3. They simply don’t know how much it turns us girls on!

Therefore my sweet, hot and handsome boys: will you please start to turn up the noise?!

xoxo Lucy.